Too Many Women Are Waiting for a Husband to Make their Lives Complete.

All right, ladies. This post is for you, especially the single ones. A couple of weeks ago, my brother-in-law posted this on his WhatsApp story: If a man must have a car, a job, and a house, what should a woman have? It was interesting to see the responses he was getting. He took a…

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When I Realized ANXIETY Was Not a Made-up Thing…

For the longest, I always thought that having “anxiety” was just a made-up thing. Any time I met someone who told me they suffered from anxiety, I would snicker on the inside and roll my eyes (on the inside too–of course). There is no such thing. Why are people always inventing these terms? I remember…

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Letting People Go…Why is it Hard?

I have always had a problem when it comes to letting people go, especially those I have known for a long time. I’m the type that will hold on forever–even when it isn’t good for me. I love hard–whether it’s friends or family–and letting go has never been easy for me. I am a very…

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Perfection is Overrated. 

I know… It’s been almost a year since you last heard from me. Pretty much since I went back to work full-time. So, how am I doing? How am I handling everything? One day at a time honestly. I am constantly torn between throwing the towel or pushing myself to keep going. I feel like…

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Author Tamarria Denga Shares Her Story of Being in a Spiritually Abusive Church.

When I first entertained the idea of sharing my story, I didn’t, or rather couldn’t, imagine all of the old wounds that would bleed open once again. Abuse affects us all differently, but it leaves a lasting imprint on all who have had the unfortunate opportunity to encounter its grievous nature. I was a victim…

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When Writing Doesn’t Go as Planned..

What is a new with me? Well, so much. Firstly, I am very sad because I have not been able to complete NANOWRIMO. Unfortunately, last week I grabbed my laptop from the counter, while holding baby on the other arm, and it just slipped from my arms like silk and hit the floor. Then there…

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