When I Realized ANXIETY Was Not a Made-up Thing…

For the longest, I always thought that having “anxiety” was just a made-up thing. Any time I met someone who told me they suffered from anxiety, I would snicker on the inside and roll my eyes (on the inside too–of course). There is no such thing. Why are people always inventing these terms? I remember…

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Letting People Go…Why is it Hard?

I have always had a problem when it comes to letting people go, especially those I have known for a long time. I’m the type that will hold on forever–even when it isn’t good for me. I love hard–whether it’s friends or family–and letting go has never been easy for me. I am a very…

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Perfection is Overrated. 

I know… It’s been almost a year since you last heard from me. Pretty much since I went back to work full-time. So, how am I doing? How am I handling everything? One day at a time honestly. I am constantly torn between throwing the towel or pushing myself to keep going. I feel like…

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When Writing Doesn’t Go as Planned..

What is a new with me? Well, so much. Firstly, I am very sad because I have not been able to complete NANOWRIMO. Unfortunately, last week I grabbed my laptop from the counter, while holding baby on the other arm, and it just slipped from my arms like silk and hit the floor. Then there…

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I Was in a Cult part 2: Be Aware of “men of God” who always prophecy.

I am overwhelmed with the support and the messages I received from the last blog post I wrote about spiritual abuse and being in a cult. Some of you trusted me with your  own testimonies after reading mine, and I pray that one day you will be brave enough to talk about it publicly. This…

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I am Writing An Entire Novel in One Month.

It has been a very long time since I got excited about writing fiction. For a while it became like such a chore and just the thought of it made me anxious. I have had no desire  to write for more than a year now. Then I started playing with the idea of doing National…

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